In my view, a chronicle indicates that a story is always being reimagined: it may take some turns and pauses, but the story itself keeps moving forward. Lauren and I share the experience of telling our stories on the big stage, surrounded by strangers who have become friends-in-bravery. Recently, I sat down with Lauren to ask some questions.
1. We've flipped the page. What's the title of this chapter of your life?
Title: Self Love & Self Discovery.
I want to love myself where I am right now. I want to take bold leaps as a writer and motivational speaker. I want to live boldly, use my story to empower others, learn to love myself and be open to love from someone else.
2. In your opinion, why do women, especially Black women, tend to hold so much shame around our bodies and sexuality?
Our society has a double standard in how men and women are allowed to express their sexuality. Women are still labeled as sluts and whores for certain sexual behaviors while men are not. This is especially harder for black women. A lot of black women are raised with shame around sex and sexuality. It makes it difficult for us to have healthy sex lives or healthy views of our sexuality. I think things change when parents start educating kids about sex without the shame and guilt narrative.
3. What's your superpower and when did you discover it?
I am a natural storyteller. I discovered this as a little girl. For as long as I can remember, I've been writing and telling stories to entertain people. When I was a teenager I would write soap operas with my friends as characters. I'd pass them out once or twice a month. I wanted to be the black Danielle Steele, then the Black Carrie Bradshaw in my earlier twenties. Since then, I've been a storyteller in some shape or another as a television reporter, blogger, motivational speaker and content creator. I believe stories have the power to entertain, educate and save lives.
4. You've received the golden YouTube plaque. Where do you put it and how do you celebrate?
When I receive the golden YouTube Plaque, I'm hanging it in the eye view of my office desk. I'd love to be able to see it daily to remind myself of why I'm sharing my story on Youtube and the impact it's having.
I'd celebrate with a special photo of me, and a party with some of my local followers to thank them for supporting my journey.
5. Give us your definition of vulnerability.
Vulnerability is being willing to be emotionally naked with someone. It means lowering your walls to let someone see you in the valleys and the peaks. It also means speaking your truth even if it is hard.
6. Is it true that once a good girl's gone bad, she's gone forever?
Definitely not! I think inside of every woman is the little girl with hopes, dreams and optimism. I believe heartbreak and disappointment can sometimes jade the good girl in all of us. The key is not to let adversity make you bitter. Learn from it and allow it to make you better.
7. What do you have in the works that the world should know about?
I am working on my first memoir about how I lost everything due to mental illness, and how storytelling saved my life. I am also working on a women's empowerment calendar to showcase body positivity and highlight powerful stories.
Lauren Hope is a storyteller, publicist, mental health advocate, and influencer. A former television journalist, Lauren has a special talent for storytelling. She helps others craft their stories in ways that inspire, motivate, and create real change. She also elevates business owners and creatives through storybranding and public relations consulting.
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